i have a child that lives in new york i live in mass. she is 12 years old she told me that she does not want nothin to do with me. everytime she comes down she refuses to see me an i now have found the women that i want to spend the rest of my life with. my daughter has no idea about her. she is also carryin my next child we get along so well. its hard to countinue payin childsupport an support the next child to i feel like if she dont want to see me then why should i have to pay the support for her.