When I was about 17 my grandmother, yes my grandmother, had me marry a woman in the military so the woman could get more money and she would also give my grandmother some of the money. Now, I live in Al and want to get married to the mother of my children and she wants to join the military now. I want to marry her, so what do I need to do to see who I am married to? I don't know her first or last name or anything about her. I know this sounds weird but its true! Please help me because I want to marry for love and not for money for my evil grandmother.