What can I do??
Sorry you are going through this and this is very common so don't feel alone. There should be a provision in your sep agreeement that deals with this, she must have an obligation to refinance every few months or expunge the loan? If not, you can go to court and modify the order or file a contempt depending upon what your agreement states. Take care and i wish you all good luck.
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This type of scenario is becoming more and more common given the stricter financing requirements. This would be a very good situation for mediation. If your divorce agreement does not say what would happen in the event she can't refinance, the only options are attorneys and court - meaning a judge would have to decide, or the two of you figure out how to deal with this situation by agreement with the help of a neutral third party mediator. There are various options that a mediator could explore with both of you, such a time frame requirements, considering selling the house etc. These options can be better explored with the two of you together. You may have come to the agreement that your wife stay in the home for reasons that are still valid, so these concerns would need to be factored in. If children are involved, mediation is a great option for this type of issue. You should make every attempt to keep the conflict between the two of you from escalating over this issue for the benefit of your children.
Employment / Labor Attorney
Your attorney should have dealt with that in the divorce settlement. Since that didn't happen you'll have to work it out directly with your wife through mediation (usually the best and cheapest option) or you will have to seek legal assistance to modify the existing agreement (often an expensive option with no guarantee of success.)
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Real Estate Attorney
I am guessing that you didn't retain an attorney to assist you in the divorce process, since this contingency was not addressed. I recommend that you retain counsel now to see if something can be done to effectuate your separation agreement or perhaps modify it.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
My colleges are correct. perhaps you can visit an attorney who will offer a free consultation, in which you should bring all of your paperwork related to the divorce. The attorney should be able to assess your situation and provide you with some alternatives.
You can also file a Petition to Partition to force the sale of the house. This may take as long as one and a half years to complete, and should be filed in the Land Court. There are many factors to consider when utilizing this option. Please consult an attorney for advice.
You are not alone. This is becoming more common.