I have been marrierd for 3 years. Been together for 9 years. We have 3 kids, and are going to get a divorce. My husband works full time, while I'm a stay at home mother. He has the bank accounts in his name only, due to my credit. He gives me no money for the kids needs. I started watching a little boy in my home for some money for me and our children. What are my rights as a married woman right now? Can I take the bank card and take money out for the kids, or is that stealing?