The housing market is great now and we found a great house.We will each be giving equal amounts for the 20% down payment. We have been dating for 2 years & will get married later. I'm very scared about buying a house without being married, I was divorced 4 years ago and it was a horrible, and it cost me more than 1 year's salary and took 8 months to finalized, even-though there were no children. Should I consult my divorce attorney to make sure I am protected and have her draft something for me; he can choose his own attorney and then have it reviewed, so we are both protected? Or should we go to a neutral attorney, have them draft the forms for us? I feel like I am in a divorce mediation again and not beginning a new life with someone. Am I being too paranoid?