First, you are not eligible to receive a Chapter 7 discharge at this time. Converting would not help you with your goals. You may consider having this case dismissed, and then paying and filing a new bankruptcy (Chapter 7) in or after July 2013.
Second, you have concerns about attorney fees, and the very real prospect of paying your lawyer more money for a potential Chapter 7. Realize that Chapter 13 cases are time-consuming and labor-intensive for attorneys. Any fees you agreed to pay your lawyer through the plan are most likely due to go to the attorney. In many cases, the trustee will pay the attorney for their work, even in dismissed cases. You should be happy about this.
Third, just because you want to convert or otherwise be in Chapter 7 does not mean you get to be there. Remember why you filed back in 2005: the law was changing to make higher-income folks go to Chapter 13 because of that means test. The means test is very much alive, and doing a great job of filtering people out of Chapter 7 who have the ability to repay some or all of their debt. Your attorney can help you determine whether you'd even be eligible to be in Chapter 7.
Finally, because you have an attorney, you really should sit down and strategize with them about how to proceed. That is why they're there. Good luck to you and your upcoming marriage.
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I don't believe you will be entitled to a discharge in the case if it converts to Chapter 7. It is measured between filing dates. In some districts they give you the ability of paying off your plan early as long as the funds are not coming from your disposable income. That means you would get the money from a relative/friend or maybe tap an exempt source (401(k) or IRA). Depending upon your district, the amount needed to fully pay your plan off and your resources, that is the only thing that I think you could do to conclude your existing case. Before just sending in a payoff you should always consult your lawyer to determine your district's local procedures.
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You cannot convert your Chapter 13 to Chapter 7 because at the time of filing your 13, you were not eligible for Chapter 7. If you try to convert your case, you will be denied a discharge.
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