He was involved when he conceived me. He has 3 other kids one older then me. Although he did want to somehow be involved when I was born I moved to the states with my mother. I don't fully blame him for not being in my life, but he had many ways of finding me and being part of it. He lives in Ecuador at the moment. I'm going off to college soon and I've done pretty well for myself. I'm only considering meeting him to meet my siblings. Can he take me away from my mom or force me to spend time with him? Also considering he's never paid child support would there be a way to get any financial help from him? I'm not saying that in a I want money kinda way but in a I need money for college and he's never done anything to help anyway. Thank you for your help.