I neve signed any car loans or ccredit cards. nothing in my name. all debt is in his name. now wants a judge to grant divorce and me to be responsible for half. Can he get away with this?
Chapter 7 Bankruptcy Attorney
You are responsible for whatever the divorce court judge says you are in the final decree. While you may not be legally responsible to your husband's creditors, that is, they cannot sue you for payment, you can be held responsible for his debt by the divorce judge. In Florida we have what is called "equitable distribution" of both assets and debts of the marriage. The idea is that while you may be held responsible for some of his debt, you are getting property that might otherwise be his or he is being held responsible for part of your debts. Any assets or debts (except inheritances), and I mean ANY; that are acquired during the marriage are considered joint assets and debts.
So the answer to your question is: Yes, a divorce judge could hold you responsible for all or part of your husband's debts and, if you don't obey the final decree and pay them, and he gets sued by the creditor, you can be held in contempt of the divorce court. That doesn't mean that the judge will hold you responsible, just that he/she could. Neither is it outlandish or outrageous that your husband is asking that you be held responsible.
So, it would behoove you to negotiate a final settlement otherwise you might get whatever some judge gives you.
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Chapter 7 Bankruptcy Attorney
The divorce agreement, decree or judgment supposedly settled the rights and obligations between you and the former spouse. However, it does not change the obligations each of you had with third parties who were not in Court when you got the divorce.
The ex-spouse may refuse to make payments to credit card companies, car financing companies, mortgage companies, etc. Your ex may even file for Bankruptcy.
Depending on the law in your State you may have an action against the ex-spouse, and you may even be able to sue the ex-spouse if they file for Bankruptcy and have their obligation to you declared “non-dischargeable”.
Unfortunately the divorce or the ex’s Bankruptcy does not relieve you of any obligations you had to these third parties.
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Unless the court orders it, you are not responsible. If court does order it, the debt is not subject to discharge in a Chapter 7 bankruptcy; it may be in a Chapter 13. Consult with a local attorney if that happens.
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