I am a victim of domestic violence there is a no contact court order, what do I do with my boyfriends stuff, he lives with me?

I am not licensed in Washington, however, you can talk to someone who is related to him or a friend of his and see what arrangements can be made for a third party to come and pick up his things. Just don't let him come by, a third party should do it.

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