My stepson has stated that he wants to live with me and only visit with his father. There are valid reasons for this. His father has an active case at this point for a 2nd DWI and another charge. Father is sending our son to peoples house who have mentally and emotionally turned this childs world upside down. He has ADHD and possible bipolar (Has not yet been tested for latter). Needs counseling and tutoring which his father will not provide. Needs more stable living environment. His father has a drug problem and has a close relationship with someone who has a record with drugs. How can I do something to help him and give him a better life. I believe I can do this and if asked by a judge my 8 year old step son would tell a judge the truth about anything he was asked.