A young man and I decided to get an abortion when we found out I was pregnant. I was in my 5th month of pregnancy by the time he got his part of the money but by then I couldnt go through with the abortion. When I was able to tell him, he proceded to call me names and deny being the father. He then changed his number and moved. I just found his full name and current phone number online from a site called Facebook. I sent him a message with my phone number so that we could arrange a meeting for a paternity test but he has yet to respond and it has been at least two months now since i sent the messageAnd he has yet to respond. My son is almost two years old now and I want a paternity test to prove whether he is or is not the father but I know he won't do it willingly. What can I do?
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Since he is a jerk, don't keep waiting for him to act.
Either file a child support case with the state, and if he denies paternity they will get him tested, or retain a lawyer and sue him for support (and again the court can order testing).
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