Not sure where I see an unresolved legal question here. You can go to a women's shelter as to housing. You can apply for food aid. The status of your marriage is unclear, but if you are not yet divorced, you can file, seek your share of the marital assets and pensions, perhaps money to live on. See an attorney or seek legal aid.
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You can always file another protection order petition because your original was dismissed without prejudice but you need some hard evidence before you can prosecute that claim again otherwise it will again be dismissed. You need to immediately consult a local attorney about how to get support.
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