This type of action would require making a petition to the court, asking it to terminate your parental rights. Be aware that terminating your rights will not relieve you of the duty to support your child, unless and until that child is adopted and again has two parents supporting him or her.
Also, the standard the court will use in determining whether you can give up your rights is 'best interests of the child'. It could be that, even though this is what the child claims to want now, it may not be persuasive to the court.
If you wish to find out more, you need to find an attorney in your area who is experienced in family law and have a consultation with him or her.
You cannot do what you want to do in NC. If the other parent wants to terminate your parental rights, he/she will have to file a petition and show that the termination is justified according to the grounds set forth in the statutes, such as abandonment. If the other parent does not want to terminate your parental rights, then it will not happen.
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