my x wife took my daughter and moved to n.c. 14 years ago. we had joint custody. i didnt know where they were so i never made contact . i found out she was adopted by her stepfather 10 years ago. but, i have no proof. the mother is taking me to court for child support for the 14 years she was gone. i never went to court to stop my order but, shouldn't it stop if she was adopted? i just need proof.