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How far away physically does a person who has a restraining order placed upon them be from the alleged victim?

Falmouth, MA |

I was having dinner at a local restaurant last night. I did not know that my ex was also in the restaurant. Upon seeing me there, she called the police to have me arrested for violating the restraining order. Nothing was said verbally, as I did not know she was there.

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Each restraining order has its own terms as to how far away a defendant must stay from the complaintant. Typically it is 50 or 100 feet. If you become aware that your ex is within that protection zone, it is up to you to remove yourself from the location. However, if you were unaware that she was there, it is impossible to comply. You do not say if you were in fact arrested or not. If you were, you should hire the best criminal defense counsel that you can to represent you and defend your position on the matter. The consequence of violating a 209A order are criminal sanctions, which may include jail. If you wish to discuss this further you can contact my be telephone numbers provided on my website.

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There is a defense called incidental contact.

If you need help, contact me.

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I would be happy to discuss this situation with you and what your options are. I recently won a jury trial on similar facts as yours. Give me a call if you are still seeking an attorney. Joseph Chancellor, (617) 725-2675

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