My wife suddenly asked for a divorce. I then found phone records and other evidence of an affair. I called her out on it and the next day she's moving out claiming she's leaving an abusive relationship. I believe she was told to do this by her attorney. She has since admitted to "being in touch" with the ex boyfriend after lying repeatedly about whose phone number it was and denying being in contact with him. Now she claims she has "always been in contact". This man was recently released from prison after serving like 10 years or more for bank robbery. That's also a great concern to me regarding custody.
Family Law Attorney
Is the alleged abuse against her or the child(ren)? The court will decide what is in the best interest of the child. They will consider whether the children were abused and/or whether alleged abuse of spouse was in the presence of the children. These will all play a part in what type of custody/ visitation schedule will be set up. There are other factors as well. For example, each parties parental involvement in care, education, discipline, etc.
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Criminal Defense Attorney
When all is said and done, the buck stops with the judge hearing your custody matter (who will determine what type of custody and/or visitation arragement is in the best interests of the child or children). The effect allegations of this type will have on any of your custody or visitation rights with the child will depend upon the evidence placed before the court. You, just as your wife, will have the opportunity to present evidence, refute evidence, and argue evidence and the law. I'd advise you consult with an attorney about your specific facts for assistance understanding your rights and obligations and the child custody process. Additionally, if your wife has retained counsel for the matter, I would definitely advise you to have your own as well to ensure your parental interests are protected as fully as possible. Best wishes.