My ex has told my children that I lie to them and that I put him in jail (he violated my order of protection and was arrested) How do I put a stop to this, it is hurting them and making them question their family. When they are with me I do not talk about our divorce case as I understand they need protection and they need to be children, I love them and want to protect them from his anger. Should I go to family court and ask for relief there even though my case is pending in IDV. Is this enough to ask for supervised visitation? There have been many instances of my ex telling the children inappropriate things regarding our case. He is unable to separate his anger from his parenting.