After losing our home to foreclosure in Jan 08, my spouse basically disappeared just a few months later. He lost his job a week after I learned he hadn't been paying our mortgage. I have no idea where he works or lives, and I don't have his new cell number and/or email address. He hasn't paid any bills since Jan 08 and his mail is still coming to me . I had to quit my full-time job 5 years ago to care for my disabled child. I want to file for divorce but I don't have the money yet to pay for an uncontested divorce, let alone, pay to "attempt" to have him served. (We did not have children together). I hope you can help .