How do I make my ex get me off the mortgage loans, he got the house in the divorce.

The starting point is your decree of dissolution as there may be language specifying deadlines and what should happen if he refuses to cooperate. It is unlikely that a court would find him in contempt as some courts do not consider this a contemptible matter. However, that shouldn't stop you from seeking relief from the court either to force him to comply with the language of the decree or to give you some kind of equitable relief. The court may even be willing to appoint a special master who would have the authority to sign documents on his behalf. I understand that he is required to refinance but that may be a problem if he is unable to get a loan based on his credit and current lending practices and it may be required to sell the property. As for your credit, you need to be in contact with the credit bureaus and let them know what is happening. You may even send you a copy of the decree showing that your ex is responsible for the loans. As another option, you may consider bankruptcy.