I feel like I'm falling apart again, and its a game for him. It's not about wanting monetary compensation, its about him taking responsibility for his actions.
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Assuming that this comes from a domestic situation (marriage, other romantic involvement, family, etc.), it may be possible to get a restraining order to keep him away. This isn't a claim, but if the concern is about the effect upon you, this is an option.
If it's about him learning, though, and he's already an ex, don't invest any more time in it.