is there a web site i can go to that will tell me if i was sued for child support?
You would have been served if there was a civil action against you. You would also get a notice in the mail anytime there was a hearing once the case was in progress. You can go to the clerk of court's website and check to see if any cases pop up when you enter your name.
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