My wife stays out all night, God knows where, drinking, drugging and whatever else. She has men calling her and texting her often. She has a male "friend" who's house she spends the night over and sleeps in the same bed with. She has destroyed my property and clothing on more than one occasions. My life is going good right now and I feel as if she is only here to have a place to live and someone to take care of her. I dont want to simply file for divorce, making her angry, and then suffer more material loss.
Marriage / Prenuptials Lawyer
If she has destroyed your property, then that is an enumerated offense, which would entitled you to an order of protection. You should seek the aid of counsel to help you with this matter.
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Criminal Defense Attorney
Although one must wonder how in view of what you wrote, "life is going good...," the only way to keep her out of the house via an order of protection is by bringing a family offense petition if she engages in one of the enumerated penal offenses, or the equivalent charge in local criminal court, or by seeking a divorce and asking for exclusive occupancy to keep the peace at home. You should discuss this with an attorney as well as other possibilities.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
You can file for an Order of Protection seeking a stay away or you can file for divorce seeking exclusive use and occupancy based upon her destruction of property.
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Personal Injury Lawyer
It's all done in one shot, though it's a bit complicated. You will have to file an action for divorce, and a Petition for an Order to Show Cause and Temporary Restraining Order giving you exclusive possession of the your house or apartment. You really need a lawyer for this, it's kind of involved.