Been separated since Nov. '08.
Been legally separated since March 15, 2011.
We were to wait for 6 months so he could secure his own health insurance (he's self-employed). He now refuses to sign because he's cheap and doesn't want to pay for his health insurance (he's on my company policy). He claims bogus contempt issues to keep it going. I have spent my entire divorce settlement on attorney's fees and now must wrap this up on my own.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
There is really no defense to converting legal sep decree to dissolution decree. Either way, you will have to bring a motion to convert legal separation to dissolution. Prepare the motion and Order you want signed (converting), send him a Note For Motion Hearing setting a date and time when it will be present in Ex Parte. File motion and note for hearing with court and show up at hearing with Order you want judge to sign. If ex signs Order before then, take it to Ex Parte and have it entered.
Each county has a Family Law Court Facilitator who can help you. This is usually free or minimal cost.