I am sorry you are going through this. Both parents are responsible for financial support of the child, whether or not the parents live together. If one parent refuses to provide support voluntarily, you need to seek legal counsel as soon as possible to make sure that an order for a support is established by the court as soon as possible. the counsel will also be able to advise you regarding your eligibility for alimony. With respect to attorney's fees, it appears from the facts you describe, you may be able to have the court issue an order for either 1) your husband to pay your attorney fees and/or 2) advance against the future distribution of the marital property. Please do not delay to consult an attorney. I hope it helps and good luck!
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Even if you get an order for him to assist with your legal fees, that doesn't help, as you would need to retain a lawyer with your funds, and would be trying to recover those later. So get your family and friends (and charge cards) to assist. In the meantime, if he is not paying child support you can go to the state and put him on child support. You really do need a lawyer and while some may work with you on fees, you need to be prepared to bear some costs now.
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You did not say if the son is his biological son: but from what you did say, I will answer this on the assumption that if the the son is his child, he will have a child support obligation, and you are entitled to attorney's fees establishing that child support obligation. If he has the type of job where there are401k benefits or pension benefits, earned by him during his marriage to you, those are marital assets to which you are entitled to a share. Finally, you are probably entitled to some alimony, at least for a short period of time, as I assume there is a big difference between the amount of your income and his income. All of those factors would also support the court awarding you attorney's fees. I would strongly advise you to call an attorney, tell him or her the situation as you have here, and enlist legal representation. Feel free to contact me if I can be of further assistance.
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