I have 3 children, 1 is my (soon to be ex) husband's. The other 2 are not. However, all 3 were born during our marriage. Paternity has been established on the other two, so there is no confusion. We have not been together in nearly 10 years, but he refused to give me a divorce and took off. I don't know where he is or how to find him so I can file for divorce and have him served. I don't have much money. We do not have any assets or property to divide up, and he has only seen our daughter a handful of times in 10 years so I don't think it is something he would fight me over. Please help, I need this divorce.