You may want to call the North Carolina Lawyer Referral Service
Phone: 1-800-662-7660. I don't know that a fill in the blank contempt form exists as they are so fact specific. You can try going online to nccourts.org and see what you can find. I know Mecklenburg County has a self serve center and does to free clinics, a county closer to you may as well.
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