In 2010, my father filed for grandparent rights based on the fact there was no father figure in my daughters life and she and myself liked in his home for 16 months, she is now 4. Now that I have moved, he has taken me back to court, my problem is, he disregards how i want my daughter to be raised, and refuses when i ask him to do so. The visits do not benefit my daughter, she comes home an emotional wreck, looks as if she doesn't sleep, and acts like a completely different child. A person living in the household is on has record of drug use, but when brought up was disregarded by the mediator because it was juvenile case, at 17 years old.
The drug situation is of my adopted brother who still resides with my father,
Child Custody Lawyer
You must file a Petition for Modification and special relief to have the visits terminated based upon the impact they have on the child. Grandparents are only allowed visitation if it is in the best interest of the child and it doesn't interfere with the parent/child relationship. I would contact/retain an attorney to discuss this matter in more detail, as this request requires a hearing and determination by the Court.
Family Law Attorney
I agree with Attorney Vandergrift that you can file a Petition to terminate the visits. However, you will need to meet with an attorney because it will be very difficult for you to handle this matter on your own. I would suggest that you contact the legal aid office in your county and the bar association to determine whether there are attorneys who will assist you either free of charge or at a reduced fee. Because of your age, you may be able to qualify. You should write down your concerns and bring any evidence that you have concerning the drug use of the person living in the household with you to the lawyer's office.
My response is based solely on the limited information contained in the question. It is not meant to substitute your attorney's advice.
Child Custody Lawyer
You should consult with an experienced attorney who can help you file the appropriate petition to modify the custody order. If people living in the child's home have a history of certain enumerated offenses, like drug convictions, you can request a special hearing for the court to consider whether that person poses a risk of harm to the child as a result of thier criminal history.