I am a resident of VA. I have 3 children with my ex. According to the final divorce approved by the court, we have joint legal custody. My ex has sole physical custody and I have the right to reasonable visitation. Since I moved out over a year ago, I have had the kids 50% of the time. I pick them up from school on Wednesday and have them until I drop them off at school on Friday morning as well as every other weekend from Friday to Monday morning. I also do soccer practices on Tuesday night and soccer on every saturday mrning. I also take them on trips. I want to change my custody to shared custody 50/50 since that is what we do. I am also afraid that if i try to change the support as a result my ex may prevent me from seeing the kids as often as I do.