The father of my child was not present at her birth. He does not want a paternity test and says that he knows she is his child and he wants me to add his name to the birth certificate and have her last name changed to his. I have no problem with this I just don't know how to go about it. Thank you.
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The answer depends on the age of the child. It is possible, before age 1, in some cases, to correct a birth certificate directly with vital records. After that, you need a lawyer, and will need either to have him file a legitimization (he has to file that), or perhaps you could do a petition to correct the birth certificate (the former option being better than the latter).
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Juvenile Law Attorney
As my colleague said in his answer, depends on the age of the child. As the mother, you can consent to the legitimation, at which point the judge, upon proper filing, can approve the petition to legitimize. However, it is possible for the judge to mandate a paternity test. It could be an easy process for you, or it could get complicated. You should consult an attorney to guide you through the process.