My youngest son is 17 lives with dad who already spent all three of my kids college fund. Uncle is selling the house, telling myself and two older kids they have to be out by next Friday. I was my ex-mom in laws caretaker past away from cancer March 19th 2013. His mother told me the grandkids are to get moneys and life insurance and her Son (Uncle to kids) gets the house. Also wants to make sure youngest father doesn't spend the youngest inheritance either., we have joint custody. Can he order the kids out of his moms house without seeing them will. My daughter already asked for a copy and she is 22 years old. He would not give it to her a copy. Uncle told her she should trust him. He already went through all her jewelry as well. Uncle goes home in a couple of days and its out of state.
Family Law Attorney
You need to speak to a local estate lawyer ASAP. If the death only occurred 10 days ago, it seems very premature for uncle to be making demands on occupancy. You may also have rights as a tenant, which would prevent you from just being thrown out. He cannot take matters into his own hands. As for your youngest child's inheritance, you and father should agree on setting up a trust with these funds, with a trustee other than father, or seek a modification of your divorce judgment to compel the funds be held in trust and out of father's potential grasp.
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Contracts / Agreements Lawyer
He cannot just kick you out if you have been living there for longer than 30 days. He can only evict you through Housing Court. Also you may want to contest the will.
You would be well-served to discuss your dilemma with a New York estates attorney in a confidential forum as soon as possible.
Facts are some what confusing however as my colleagues recommended, best to consult with a local attorney. If I can be of any assistance, please contact my office to set up a consultation (518.383.1182).
Estate Planning Attorney
No one has any authority to act on behalf of the estate until the court appoints them. Even if he has a will that says the terms he has stated to you, there might be reason to challenge it or its provisions. Also, sometimes provisions need to be construed by the court. As all of the other posts, I would seek out legal counsel and fast. When someone refuses to show a document, there is usually a reaon why.