I originally filed for divorce, but husband didn't want to comply. I also tried to reconcile, but he was having an affair. He tries to live here part time and with her part time. He will not move anything out of house. He wants the house, all his marital/personal assets, pensions/401ks, and I take only my personal belongings and personal property before marriage. I have been emotionally turned upside down and my job is now in jeopardy. I dropped my lawyer because I wasn't getting anything out of this,but in debt.