You don't say whether or not he did it. You don't have to on this forum, but if he did you don't want him to be the dad for your child. If your child is a boy, he will teach the child to disrespect you and physically abuse you, and he will hurt the boy. If your child is a girl, I don't even want to go there. If you want to go back to this man, I understand that change is hard, but get out now while you can before he kills you. Try to meet a good man who will respect you and your child. If you go back to a man like this you could wind up losing your child and you could well wind up losing your life. Also, the fact that you decided to drop charges makes no difference at all, the state can still choose to prosecute. Aggravated battery on a pregnant woman is a serious crime by a bad person. The state is right to prosecute it.
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I agree with my peer and would also state that if there is still a no contact order in place, the police, the State Attorney and Judge must think there is enough evidence to prosecute him for the crime, no matter what your wishes are.
You do seem to be vulnerable to the effects of emotional, physical and financial abuse. If you were abused by this man, please seek help. Florida has numerous resources to assist you in making decisions about this relationship and the care of your child. Please go to http://www.fcadv.org/centers/local-centers, for more information.
Let me also add that if he did do this, and he is convicted, and you allow him to be a part of the child's life, without the Court's approval, you may find yourself facing a charge of failure to protect the child and DCF could become involved. Please consider what is best for your child before you reconcile with a man who was arrested for beating you while you are pregnant.
Good luck to you.
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I agree with my colleagues unless of course he did not do the things you originally claim he did. Furthermore as a victim you can have legal representation and file a motion with the court on your behalf. Of course the judge will look at the facts and determine if it is safe for you to have contact and may or may not grant the motion.
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