Haven't seen her in about 4 years, pretty sure (though not 100%) of the county she lives in and I know her social security number.
Family Law Attorney
You may want to check the last with the Superior Court of the last county where your wife resided. For example, you can search Maricopa County Superior Court divorce records at http://www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/docket/FamilyCourtCases/caseSearch.asp.
If she resided in Coconinio County you can try http://www.coconino.az.gov/index.aspx?NID=184.
You can keep going though the counties in Arizona by the same method.
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