First, if you were a victim of abuse then it should be reported to police immediately. Abuse generally involves criminal actions (for example, battery) and so the crime should be reported.
If these lawyers have a conflict of interest then ethically they are not allowed to handle this case. Obviously you would want the lawyer handling your case to be an ethical and intelligent lawyer. You should contact other lawyers until you can find someone capable and willing to handle your case.
This is not to be considered legal advice nor does an attorney-client relationship exist.
All abuse should be reported to the local police. All attorneys are ethically prohibited from handling matters where a conflict of interest exists. If eight attorneys have conflicts then you should keep looking.
DISCLAIMER: David J. McCormick is licensed to practice law in the State of Wisconsin and this answer is being provided for informational purposes only because the laws of your jurisdiction may differ. This answer based on general legal principles and is not intended for the purpose of providing specific legal advice or opinions. Under no circumstances does this answer constitute the establishment of an attorney-client relationship.
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