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Hospice of Ohio offers free medical power of attorney and living will forms. That can be nice if money is a problem, but attorneys are also very inexpensive for these kinds of documents.
This is a matter where you need the advice and knowledge of a seasoned elder law attorney. It is one thing to fill in the blanks on a form and quite another to have a professional who has the experience to ask the rights questions to identify the issues and offer solutions that work. It is all about giving instructions to maintain control and your dignity. The cost for such services is generally not great, especially when compared to the down side of not having it done right. Use the AVVO Find a Lawyer search tool to locate an elder law attorney near you or go to the website of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys at www.naela.org.
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Every adult should have a living will and a health care power of attorney. In Ohio you can find the standard forms for both documents on line or at your local probate court. Your living will involves only end of life decisions. Your health care power of attorney is much broader, as it relates to all health care decisions that you are not competent to make at the time that they need to be made. If you are not comfortable having a family member make these decisions for you then you should find a trusted friend who is capable of making decisions for your care and well-being.
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