My wife and I purchased a home in a little over a year ago and would like to know what options we would have for "short selling" the home and debt reduction (loan/credit cards) because of health issues of single mother with children grand-daughter. Now my wife will be leaving her position in December because of stress. We would like to return to our home state of PA to assist the grand-daughter. Our loan on the home has PM Insurance. Does that would help us dealing with the lender? We would like to prevent going to forclosure. Iam on SS and she is a year away from Social Security.