i am looking to get a divorce. Told my wife, and she is having a tough time digesting the thought. We have talked about this for over 5 years, when I have tried to solve the crisis. We have a house, with descent equity, but will that hold in today's market. The interest is low, over 15 yrs, only until 05/18 until maturity. Two cars with titles, one to go to our son and the other she can have. I have a car with 3 1/2 yrs of payments left. Then, I had to go to a debt consolidation company to help pay off my credit cards that became high. Could never get her to sign for needed home improvements so I used credit cards to pay for the absolut repairs. I also received money from my parents as an advance to the inheritance to help pay for them. She never thanked them for this great assistance.