I am married with two kids one 13 one 11. I want to leave my husband but he won't let me take the kids. I work half the week away from home and half week at home so we share taking the kids to school and picking them up. If I leave and take the kids when he's not there he will go through the roof. Yesterday I was ready to leave after a big fight but he said leave but you are not taking the kids so I'm stuck staying. If I leave after a fight and then tell him I will pick them up the next day does that go against me? Would that hurt my case when I file for 50/50 custody? If I take them when he's not there, the next day he can pick them up from school and then I can do the same the next day. What do you suggest? I am desperate. I do have a parenting agreement he over a year ago when we were having big problems but it is dated 6/2007. On there it lists the days he would have them and the day I would have them. I know it is nothing without a court order but if I take it to the court to file for temporary order do you think they will take it since it is over a year old? If I go to file it how soon can that be approved in Riverside CA, Courts?
