My ex husband and new wife recently demanded that my two daughters, 6/9, go to family counseling with them. First, they contended that they girls have emotional problems...then later wrote that they want to have a baby and want to know how to be the "best parents" possible.
Per many adults in their life, my girls have no probs with school, sleep, social stuff, mood etc. We have joint decision making and I am ok with individual but he insists on family counseling. New wife badmouths me to my step kids often and I don't want my kids subject to that agenda in counseling. He is now demanding mediation.
Can he force family conseling?
If he can force family counseling -
Am I entitled to approve the counselor?
Am I entitled to medical records?
Can I set boundaries on content?