You may try to file an order to show cause (along with another violation petition) in an attempt to speed up the court date. You should also keep a paper-trail, confirming each communication you have with her. In the interim, call her bluff & offer to take your child before/after the event which is scheduled and/or offer to accompany her to the event. In any event, you should schedule a consultation with a Westchester Child Custody attorney for a full assessment.
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Go to North Avenue family court and file for a violation of the court ordered visitation and a modification to clarify the pick up anddrop off times and places. Consult with a family law attorney to help you.
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You've done the right thing, getting into a court. Until then, nothing you can do beyond persuasion.
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You should probably consider filing a petition seeking a change in custody. Such repeated frustration of your parenting time is a good basis for arguing for a change in custody. You should consult with an attorney.
You have several options here. Your best bet would be to get a family lawyer on board because there are several things you can do. Your attorney will advise you of the different things that are available to you, such as filing an order to show cause for immediate relief. The clerks can only help you so much -- you should get an attorney to help you get the case on the calendar sooner based on what you are stating here. Best of luck to you.
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