I have a 32 yr Old son who recently got divorced. We said he could live at our home until he got back on his feet. This has been gone on now for over six months and he spends from 4 to 5 nights at our home. He does nothing to help, does not clean up after himself and when asked to do the basics of picking up after himself and doing his own dishes he gets indignant and starts arguments. I have told him now that we no longer want him to live here. He pays no rent, does not help with bills or food. Do I have to evict him or can I just tell him to leave. I do not want to break the law and if it comes to calling the police to enforce his leaving I want to know what I can or cannot do. I live in the city of McHenry, Illinois, in McHenry county.
Criminal Defense Attorney
I cannot disagree with the other fine advice the other attorneys have offered. Since you do not have a lease to rely upon, the Court will create a fictional one for you (yes, even at zero rent level). This fictional lease will be deemed to renew every month. Thus, you will need to give him a thirty (30) day written notice of eviction.
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In my practice, which is in Lake and McHenry counties, I have had several clients in your situation. The bad economy and the sense of entitlement of some of the younger folks these days have often led to situations such as yours. If you follow the PDF, you should understand what you need to do. If you would rather this come from an attorney, give me a call. This is not a exceptionally complex situation, and will not break your bank. Sometimes having the letter come from an attorney with the necessary 30 Day Notice being hand delivered by you not only addresses the situation of the freeloading child, it also restores the obviously missing respect that your son is not showing you.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
The primary question that needs to be asked is whether your son deems his residence to now be your home. If so, you probably have to go through the formal eviction process. If he is merely a guest, then you need not allow him back into the home. You should probably consult with a local landlord/tenant attorney so discuss your options.
Wrongful Termination Lawyer
consult with an attorney. The previous answers right on the money. You could have serious problems if you do this wrong.
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