I recently moved back to MA and my ex-girlfriend had expressed the possibility I may be the father of her 4 year old daughter. We took an over the counter paternity test, and I am the child's biological father. The man she was dating at the time of the child's birth signed the VAP and birth certificate. I intend to start a relationship with this child, and I would like my name to appear on the birth certificate. What steps do I take to legally establish paternity, be legally recognized as the father, and I want the child to have my surname. Looking for any/all legal advice, as well as referrals for legal services. Also: the mother of the child has expressed she will be of assistance to me, as she is not in a relationship with this man anymore. This man does have custody of the child though
Child Abuse Lawyer
I am sorry that you have been kept out of the life of your daughter for so long.
The process for trying to be legally declared her father is a complaint to establish paternity, under chapter 209C, section 3 of the Massachusetts General Laws. I have linked it below.
Unfortunately, you may have a very uphill battle asserting your parentage because Massachusetts law prefers to establish permanency for children with their legal and psychological parent over acknowledging the parenthood of a birth father who is late to the relationship.
I have linked below, the Mass. statute that makes the voluntary acknowledgment of paternity, which the mother and her ex-boyfriend must have signed to put him on the birth certificate, permanent and legally unassailable after 1 year. (Mass. Gen. Laws. chapter 209C, section 11.) I have also linked the Mass. Trial Court Law Libraries' research page "Mass. Law About Paternity".
About the only chance you would have would be if the man who has custody of your daughter is willing to support your petition to have your actual parentage adjudicated. Even then, the court does not have to allow your petition and
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Real Estate Attorney
I would say that this is the kind of circumstance where you need to hire an attorney. If two lawyers can fight about it, if either the mother, or the legal father tries to stop you - you will probably lose if you are pro se (unrepresented by a lawyer).
The above advice is friendly advice, and not legal advice. You should not rely on anyone's advice, unless you are paying for it.
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I agree with the prior responses. You may want to find out from the mother of the child if the mother will agree to a paternity test first. This could save you a lot of time and expense if you are not the biological parent of the child. You should consult with a qualified family law attorney to assess your options and to implement a good strategy based on the facts in your case.
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