met oversea, married in Yakima at 2003, has been living oversea for most of the time since married. He cheated and fathered a child when he return to Yakima to wait for his Australian spouse visa to get processed in 2004. Now he is also hold the residency of Australia. He revealed his adultery on phone last Nov when he came back for visit, and told me, everything ended, He returned Aust. However, after we come back to Yakima this June, he start to seeing her and not come home for 3 to 4 nights per week. I has been supporting him since we married even though he worked too. He hide and save up the money he made. I got proofs for them committed internet sex, sending messages through facebook, arrange met up in her house.. What can I do to save my marriage? or what will be my best option?