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Does my 8yr old daughter,victim of sex fondleing and being forced to press charges- need Atty.

Pembroke Pines, FL |
Filed under: Homicide

Police report initially filed by me, my child's statement taken. 3 wks went by with no action taken. I as the parent, after discussing this with my child decided it would be more emotionally traumatic for my child to proceed. Dectective called wanted a second interview I informed him I wan't pressing charges. He has been harrassing me at home and at my job ever since. He has threatened to have the state take my child and to have my child subpoenaed by the state.

The initial Police report was for sexual fondling of my 8yr old by a 50yr old male. I was also told by Detective that my 8yr daughter might have to submit to a physical exam if the state orders it and I have no say in the matter. Should I hire an attorney for my child and do I have to proceed in pressing charges?

Attorney Answers 4


  1. The State Attorney will decide if s/he is going to pick up the charges once a police report is made and there has been an investigation. The 8 year old is a minor and will have an Assistant State Attorney and a victim advocate assigned to her case to represent her. If she were not a minor and had made a report, which later she said was not true, she could be charged and arrested for making a false report, a misdemeanor. You did the right thing by reporting the alleged incident. Let the investigation happen, and let them talk to your child. If it turns out that they don't believe there is a crime, then they will not pursue it.


  2. BSO's Victim Services Unit provides assistance for the victims and witnesses of crimes through established advocacy policies and by providing necessary notification.

    Victim/Witness Advocates deal with the emotional trauma resulting from a crime by addressing the physical and psychological well-being of a victim or witness. The unit provides crisis intervention, short-term counseling and referrals, criminal justice information, court support, and emergency assistance for limited shelter, food, and basic physical needs arising from victimization.

    The agency's Victim Notification Specialist notifies known victims, including the next of kin of homicide victims and the relatives of minors who are victims, about the pending release of sentenced prisoners incarcerated in Broward County jails.

    The Victim's Bill of Rights

    Know your rights under the law. Victims of crime are entitled to information regarding:

    Local community services
    Availability of crimes compensation, when applicable
    The victim's role in the legal and judicial systems
    Victims also have a right to:

    Protection from intimidation
    Advanced notification of judicial proceedings related to arrest, release and proceedings, including when to submit written statements
    Notification of scheduling changes by the agency scheduling court appearances
    Attend and be heard at crucial stages of the judicial process
    Prompt and timely disposition of a case (provided it does not interfere with the rights of the accused)
    Consultation by the State Attorney's Office in certain felony crimes
    Prompt return of property (if there is no compelling need to retain the property as evidence)
    Request assistance from law enforcement or the state attorney in notifying employers and creditors of circumstances resulting from the crime
    Request and receive restitution
    Submit a victim impact statement to the court
    Have a victim advocate attend depositions
    Review portions of the pre-sentence investigation
    Receive notification of the escape or release of the offender
    In addition, the victims of a crime and the state attorney, with the consent of the victim, have standing to assert the rights of a crime victim as provided by law.

    The Broward Sheriff's Office Victim / Witness Handbook includes information on these rights and other helpful information. Contact BSO at (954) 321-4200

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  3. I certainly share your concerns with having your daughter go through the traumatic experience of speaking to a detetctive, victim's advocates, a prosecutor, and possibly a jury, and I agree with what the other lawyers have posted. But you can't make the decision as to whether the charges are filed. The police and prosecution must have a concern for all children, not just yours. If they let this case slide, who will be the next little girl to be molested? Nevertheless, I do think it's wise to retain a lawyer. The lawyer will help you share your concerns with the authorities.

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  4. I know other attorneys have comprehensively replied but I like to urge you that you should continue your cooperation with the police. This is not something which can be ignored and you do not press charges. I read a similar news items yesterday where a father (in Texas) killed on the spot a 47 old person who done similar sexual act with a 4 years old, and the police refused to charge the father. I am not justifying as act of vigilantism but justice should prevail in every case. We see these horrifying crimes everyday. I am sure you should be contacting social services so that they can also find some therapist for your daughter. Because this is an offense against the state (and against the collective conscience of our society), you cannot decide yourself to drop it.

    Only see a licensed attorney before you make any decision. This answer may not be perfect in any given situation. However, more fact may be required by your local attorney

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