Duties of loyalty and care are owed are from the trustee to the beneficiaries. The trustee is under fiduciary duties to protect and invest the assets in a prudent manner for the benefit of the beneficiaries, and to administer the trust for the benefit of the beneficiaries. The trustee must not place him/herself or their own interests above the interests of the trust beneficiaries.
Beneficiaries do not owe duties to the trustee.
Hope this helps.
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The other lawyer is right that duties are owed by trustees to beneficiaries and not vice versa.
But reality it is that if you want the marbles you have to play the game. That means, communicate with the trustee in reasonable ways which may be required by the trustee in order for him or her or it to do its job. Such as by providing your mailing address for contact informatoin or your physical address for service of process if there is a lawsuit or docketing of the trust for any matter to be resolved in court.
If a beneficiary hides from the trustee, or refuses to cooperate with the legal process, courts will be forgiving of trustees that may be forced to withhold information or distributions to the noncooperative beneficiary. That is reality.
I cant say from your situation if that may apply or not. Good luck to you.
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My colleagues are both correct. The old adage that you catch more flies with honey then you do with vinegar applies. If you create or foster a negative relationship, it will make it that much more challenging for the trustee to perform as needed. If you make the best of it, in the long run, you will be thankful.
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