My husband has had the child since he was 3.She has took him to court twice for custody and lost both times.The judge said she was just not fit to raise the child,now hes turning 14 she tells him he can choose.Can she just get him evev if my husband has raised him,she is behind in child support.She told him if he came she would get him a flat screen,four wheeler.We even got her to say it on a tape recorder that she told him that.What do we do?We live in Georgia is there laws for this.