Do more mothers win child custody cases than men in the state of Florida?

Asked over 1 year ago - Port Charlotte, FL

I am just curious because I would want to win. My baby is 8 months old. I have no job and am 19 years old. The baby's fare however has a job and a house to provide. Would he win

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  1. Karen Tallent Munzer


    Contributor Level 14


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    Answered . The word "custody" is not used in Florida courts anymore. The word is now timesharing. This is because of the stigma of "winning" or " losing" associated with "custody". A child is entitled to time with his father, and time with his mother. Currently the starting point is 50/50. This often is not workable because of parental work schedules, so in the best cases parents work out a timeshare schedule that works for them. Absent other factors , you and the baby's father will work out an amicable time sharing plan or the Court will draft one for you.

    ** LEGAL DISCLAIMER ** This response above is not legal advice and it does not establish an attorney-client... more
  2. Eric J Trabin

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    Answered . Your question is flawed. First, as the other attorney states, "custody" isn't really a legal term, though it is thrown around a lot. There is parental responsibility, which regards the decision making over the children. There is a preference for the parents to share parental responsibility. Next, there is time-sharing, that is, the division of time for caring for the children. There are many factors that affect time-sharing, none of which are mentioned here. Second, it's hard to say what "winning" would be. I don't know much about your situation, but I am skeptical to think a judge would "award" one parent sole time-sharing while giving the other parent none. The judge would likely divide time-sharing between both of you, factoring in things like that time available that each parent has, their proximity to childcare/daycare, support system, and ability to provide a stable environment. Hire an attorney to make sure that every relevant detail for your situation is addressed.

    This is not to be considered legal advice nor does an attorney-client relationship exist.
  3. Richard James Mockler III

    Contributor Level 12


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    Answered . I agree with the answers previously provided. The goal is not to "win" a custody battle, but to do what's best for your child. Most recent literate reflects that, in 85% of cases, children do better in life if they have a meaningful relationship with their father. The question then becomes whether the father in your case is one of the "bottom 15%" and you need to protect your child from him.

    To answer your question, most courts grant the mother more time most of the time. That could mean that dad gets 5 or 6 overnights every two weeks. But, currently, unless there is something really bad going on with the father, the child is entitled to time-sharing with him.

    This week, the Florida legislature is considering a law that would create a presumption that the child is entitled to equal time with both parents, subject to certain exceptions such as long-distance cases, child abuse cases, or domestic violence cases. It will be interesting to see whether the legislature adopts this measure. If so, that will have a significant impact on your case.

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