If you are being sued you must tell your insurance company immedeately. they will represent you and if you do not tell them right away you will risk losing the insurance coverage for the accident.
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Give notice immediately to your insurance company and your insurer will assign defense counsel as your attorney.
Check with a lawyer in your locale to discuss more of the details.
Good luck to you.
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Your insurance contract may require you to give them notice of the claim and if so, I would recommend doing so immediately. Failure to cooperate and/or adhere to the provisions of your policy may give your insurance carrier the right to deny coverage which would leave your friend and possibly you liable for damages.
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