I'm sorry for your loss. To be frank, a case where the other side has a lawyer and you don't is about like walking into a gun battle where one side has an assault weapon and you have a butter knife. You might do okay, but your odds are very low.
Sit down with a lawyer to evaluate your case, and whether it is worth pursuing and what it will cost to pursue. You needed a lawyer even for an UNCONTESTED probate. You definitely need one now.
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I agree that going in pro se is a huge risk. If you win you likely can use estate funds to pay your legal fees but if you lose you are probably out of pocket for the fees so you have to decide if you want to fight with a lawyer on your side.
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Yes, you need a lawyer. I am sorry to hear about your situation, but you need an experienced probate litigator. I suggest you give Glen Ashman a call. He's got the knowledge and he is near your area. Best wishes to you.
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