My ex lost his job in 2008. He has payed some money towards alimony every month and has recently obtained a source of income which may bring him back to decreed amount at some point. The amount of arrears has reached several thousand dollars (18,000) and I put most of my bills on credit cards over the last few months. He wants to add the deficit to the end of the alimony term. I want to collect more of it now because I can't afford the credit card payments.
I realize it's not up to him to set terms, but after 18 months of a grueling divorce, and declining financial and health issues, I want a clear incentive for going back to court.